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Question

Is it normal to have a reduction in sexual relations after having twins?

Answer

Congratulations on your new family additions! If you are like most families you are running short on sleep, diapers, money, help and energy--times two! You don't say how old your new twosome are but after childbirth hormones are in flux and, if an episiotomy or cesarean section helped ease their arrival, some soreness in healing may decrease mom's interest in sex.

The transition to parenthood is fraught with challenges and change and if couples aren't aware and don't take special steps to prevent it, they may find their relationship slipping to the back burner.

03/18/98