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Previous Questions

	Discomfort with Condoms
	STDs and Multiple Partners
	When my husband and I make love it hurts.
	Is premature ejaculation a type of erection problem?
	Will extra testosterone make me more manly?
	Do other women ejaculate
	My wife and I focus on intimacy rather than performance...
	Are my fantasies of 3-somes unfair?
	Are my testicles too small?
	Don't you have to be sick or weird to have or want anal sex?
	For five years my boyfriend has had little interest in sex
	Have I fallen in love with my best friend?
	How can I repair our relationship?
	How do I deal with lusting over my step sister?
	How do people get STDs?
	How does a woman know when she is having an orgasm?
	How effective is the withdrawal method in birth control?
	How much liquid is there when  a man ejaculates?
	How safe is oral sex?
	I'm interested in playing sexually with whips, chains and harnesses, but my partner...
	I continually fantasize about...
	I dreamt of sex with my 86 year old dead grandmother.
	I have been married eight years and regularly give my husband oral sex.... NEW!
	I have low sexual desire
	If I use a vibrator will I become dependent on it
	Is anal sex safe?
	I have practiced coitus interruptus for years
	It is so hard to talk to my partner about our sexual relations.
	It seems like my husband and I are rarely interested in sex at the same time.
	Men have orgasms, but why do women have them?
	My first time on the treadmill at the gym, I had an orgasm after walking for 7 minutes....
	My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the past three months.
	My husband has been entering sexual chat rooms
	My husband has stopped kissing me with an open mouth. What are some reasons for this?
	My husband is addicted to cybersex
	My husband is on anti-hypertensive medication
	My partner says she doesn't feel it when I come.
	My wife and I have great sex, but we want to try some different positions
	My wife won't talk about being wild in bed
	Sex Drive after Childbirth
	Want to show friends nude photos of wife.
	What are the sexual peaks (agewise) for men and women?
	What do I do about my lack of sexual interest?
	What is the normal level of testosterone a man should have?
	When it comes to meeting women, I get nervous and back out.

Dr. Al Cooper, clinical director at the San Jose Marital and Sexuality Centre (408-248-9737), runs the training program for Counseling and Psychological Services at Stanford University. Dr. Cooper is internationally known for his work in sexuality and is freqently interviewed by the media. He currently writes a column in Men's Health Magazine.

Dr. Coralie Scherer coordinates online services for the Centre and specializes in sexual trauma, women's issues, and marital therapy.