DIFFICULT CHILDREN CAN BE TAUGHT TO HAVE CONCERN FOR OTHERS BY WARM & SUPPORTIVE PARENTS
by Paul D. Hastings, Ph.D., Carolyn Zahn-Waxler, Ph.D., JoAnn Robinson, Ph.D., Barbara Usher, Ph.D., & Dana
Bridges
A new study finds that in the early years of life, aggressive
and disruptive children can show concern for the welfare of others.
However, this concern can decrease as the children reach school age. The
study appears in the September issue of Developmental Psychology, a journal
published by the American Psychological Association (APA). The study also
shows that environmental factors such as warm and supportive parenting may
play a role in promoting children's prosocial development.
Researchers from the National Institute of Mental Health and at the
University of Colorado at Boulder followed three groups of children from
preschool into the elementary school years. These children initially had
low, moderate or high levels of aggressive and disruptive behaviors. When
the children were four and-a-half and six and-a-half years old, their
responses were observed while their mothers and a female experimenter
pretended to injure their foot while dropping some objects on the floor. In
each case, the adult winced or grimaced, vocally expressed pain and rubbed
the injured area. In addition, at six and-a-half years, mothers, teachers
and the children answered questions about the children's concern.
The investigation revealed that at preschool age, aggressive and disruptive
children showed just as much concern in their responses to adults' distress
as did children with fewer problems. However, the concern for others of the
children with the highest levels of problem behaviors underwent dynamic and
worrisome changes over the following two years. These children's concerned
responses actually decreased from preschool to elementary school. The most
aggressive and disruptive children were also described by mothers, teachers
and themselves, as being the least prosocial.
Although deficits in concern for others' well-being are not readily
detectable in preschool-aged children with high levels of behavior problems,
the study found differences in how children responded to adults' simulations
of injuries. "Despite being just as prosocial as other preschool-aged
children," said the authors, aggressive and disruptive boys "displayed more
active disregard for others (e.g., anger, avoidance, amusement by another's
distress) which differs markedly from the simple absence of concern." This
disregard may be an early indicator of the callousness that often
characterizes antisocial behavior in adolescents and adults.
The authors noted that not all of the highly aggressive and disruptive
children's concern for others decreased, and that children with early
behavior problems actually improved from preschool to elementary school age
when they had higher levels of concern. These children may have become less
antisocial because they were distressed by the fact that their actions
harmed others. Concern for others may make it possible for children to take
responsibility for their actions, according to the researchers.
"Our results also show important links between parenting style and
children's prosocial development," said the authors. "The present results
clearly suggest that mothers who are overly strict and harshly punitive, who
do not tend to reason or establish reasonable and consistent rules, and who
strongly show their anger or disappointment with their children, are likely
to impede their children's prosocial development." This relationship was
true for both children with and without behavior problems. Conversely,
children had greater concern for others when mothers were warm, used
reasoning and set appropriate guidelines and avoided the use of harsh
punishments. One process that could account for this pattern is that
"angry, authoritarian parenting could be interpreted by the children as a
lack of care or concern on the part of their parents," said the authors.
Although fathers were not looked at in this study, the authors say future
studies should consider how fathers might influence children's concern for
others.
Gender differences were also found to play a role in concern for others. In
all three groups, girls showed more concern than boys did. This supports
prior research showing that, from the second year of life through
adolescence, girls express more empathy than do boys, according to the
authors.
Citing research that shows genetics play a significant role in empathic and
prosocial development, the authors speculate that biological factors could
also contribute to the changes in concern observed in the high-risk
children. This, they say, is something future research should address.
Reference: "The Development of Concern for Others in Children With Behavior
Problems," Paul D. Hastings, Ph.D., and Carolyn Zahn-Waxler, Ph.D., JoAnn Robinson, Ph.D., Barbara Usher, Ph.D.,
and Dana Bridges; Developmental Psychology, Vol.
36, No. 5.
01/06/01
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