Almost everyone has heard of John Gray’s Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. However, researchers have found that the belief in myths about gender can cause people to act more like stereotypes than they otherwise would. In addition, gender myths can actually harm your relationships.
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By Miquela Rivera, Ph.D.
Dating and Divorce - How Will the Kids Take It?
by Glenn F. Sternes, Ph. D.
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How To Deal With An Emotional Divorce
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Warning: Effects Of Divorce On Children
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Self-Help for Cybersex Addiction
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Phil Rich, Ed.D., MSW.
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by Richard B. Patterson, Ph.D.
Tips To Prepare For Child Custody Mediation
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The Divorce Dividend
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Come to Terms with Your Unhappy Marriage
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Patricia Pitta, Ph.D., A.B.P.P.
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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Little Known Reasons For Marriage Problems
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
Secret To Forming A Successful Marriage Relationship
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Secrets for the Second Marriage
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
The Most Research Available On The Effects on Adults Whose Parents Divorced
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Here's a Way for Regular Guys to Find Peace When They Discover a Wife Cheating
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
If You Can End Your Marital Affair, It Will Be Best For All
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
To Wives Who Can't Understand a Cheating Spouse
by Patricia Pitta, Ph.D., A.B.P.P.
10 Reasons To Try A Divorce Mediator
by William A. Eddy, LCSW, Esq.
Here's The Straight Scoop On Family Divorce
by Mark Sichel, L.C.S.W.
How To Get The Most Out Of Marriage Therapy
by Patricia Pitta, Ph.D., A.B.P.P.
7 Secrets To Improve Your Marriage
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
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by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
You Don't Have To Be A Victim Of Emotional Abuse
by Tom Heuerman, Ph.D.
Marriage Counseling Can Deepen Your Relationship
by Patricia Pitta, Ph.D., A.B.P.P.
How To Stop Fighting Over Family Finances
by Jonathan Rich, Ph.D.
Benefits Of Having Dads At Home
by Connie Saindon, MA, MFCC, CTS
Having Dad At Home Is A Benefit To Everyone
by Connie Saindon, MA, MFCC, CTS
How Your Money Style Can Cause Family Conflicts
by Melanie Haiken
Revealing Survey Results: How Caregiving Affects Marriages
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Is Love Enough to Prevent A Relationship Break Up?
by Susan Sprecher, Ph.D.
Understanding The Impact Of Divorce And How To Work Through It
by Phil Rich, Ed.D., MSW.
Three Reasons Couples Have Fights Over Money Problems
by Jonathan Rich, Ph.D.
How Does Nature vs. Nurture Affect Children Of Divorce?
by Thomas G. O'Connor, Ph.D., Robert Plomin, Ph.D., John C. DeFries, Ph.D., and Avshalom Caspi, Ph.D.
Advice For You On Marriage And Divorce
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
Divorce: What Went Wrong?
by Edward A. Dreyfus, Ph.D.
Little Known Approval Of Online Romance
by Marlene M. Maheu, Ph.D.
What Everybody Ought To Know About Opposition To Internet Couples
by Marlene M. Maheu, Ph.D.
Before You Decide: What's Up With Divorces?
by Phil Rich, Ed.D., MSW.
The Smart Person's Way To Understand If It Is Online Cheating Or A Harmless Flirtation
by David N. Greenfield, Ph.D. and Al Cooper, Ph.D.
The Smart Parent's Way To Handle Children And Divorce
by Marlene M. Maheu, Ph.D. and Dean Hughson
Have You Tried Divorce Mediation?
by Merri Hanson Eckles
Marriage and Relationships: How Caregiving Couples Can Make It Work
by Connie Matthiessen
How To Save A Marriage: Different Gender Strategies To Save Relationship
by David M. Buss, Ph.D. & Todd K Shackelford, Ph.D.
Learn What Others Are Saying About Online Affairs: Early Survey Answers
by Kristin Levine
Husband's Emotional Separation From Parents: Key To Save Marriage
by Wendy Amstutz-Haws, Ph.D. & Brent Mallinckrodt, Ph.D.
Ten Thoughts for Divorcing Parents
by William A. Eddy, LCSW, Esq.