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by Richard Wilkerson, Dream Educator

Flying dreams can take many forms as you mentioned, and in a survey I saw (Magallon, 1995), it is the number one fun activity that people prefer while dreaming. Because there are so many kinds of flying and reasons for flying, there are also many different meanings. As a matter of fact, Shafton (1995 p. 6) found over twenty-four explanations of flying in dreams by contemporary experts.

These ranged from Freud's idea that it is a reconstruction of the joy of being tossed around as a child by adults; to Alan Hobson's theory that it is the result of neuron firings from the brain stem; to Walter Bonime's feeling that it represents the person's desire to flee responsibility and limitations of nature.

Who is right? The most self-empowering answer seems to be the one that will satisfy both your need for an answer and also carry you forward in life.

Delaney (1988) has noted that dream flying can easily lead to another wonderful dream activity, dream lucidity. Once you realize that you are flying, it may occur to your that this is not something one can do in waking reality.

Ah, hah -- so this must be a dream! At the point you become lucid (aware you are dreaming while you are dreaming) you then have some really fun options with dream flying. Some people like to test their skill, seeing how high or low, how fast or slow they can fly. Others like to visit far away places or see friends.

This dream sport is so popular, there is even a on-line club devoted to flying and other fun activities in dreaming called the "Fly-by-Night Club".

References:

Living Your Dreams: Using Sleep to Solve Problems and Enrich Your Life by Gayle Delaney, M. V. (Revised Ed. San Francisco: Harper and Row.1988

Presentation during the 1995 Regional ASD conference, Integral Institute, by Linda Lane Magallon (San Francisco, CA., 1995)

Dream Reader: Contemporary Approaches to the Understanding of Dreams by Anthony Shafton (Albany, NY: Suny Press, 1995)

About the Author:

Richard Wilkerson is general editor for The Internet Dream E-zine, Electric Dreams, and director of DreamGate, the Internet Communications and Dream Education Center. He writes the Cyberphile column for the Association for the Study of Dreams Newsletter.